How to tell if she is gay
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It doesn’t matter if you’re a baby gay or downright veteran, there’s an age old question you will have to ponder period and time again: is that cute girl into girls too?
You’ve probably Googled this question looking for tips and let’s be honest – some of the clues out there (wears flannel shirts, has short hair) will steer you up the garden path.
So let’s dissect some of the stereotypical signs that she might be lesbian&#;as well as some more subtle ones.
Pro tip: The last tip is our best.
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No matter what your sexual orientation is, “mixed signals” are one of the most frustrating experiences in dating. It happens when you’re not sure how someone feels about you, because they’re inconsistent in their behavior towards you.
In addition to the normal dating challenges, as a queer woman, you have the added challenge of figuring out whether the woman you’re talking to is actually gay. Unless she comes out and says it (or has it listed on her profile somewhere), sometimes you really can’t tell. If you’re in this situation, you’re not alone.
Let’s look at what mixed signals are, why they take place, and how you can gain clarity on what’s actually going on between you and the other person. And yes, we’ll also dive into how you can request if she’s a lesbian.
What are Mixed Signals in Dating?
It looks something prefer this:
- Sometimes your hang out is “hot”; sometimes they’re “cold.”
- Sometimes they appear to favor you; other times, they back off and show no interest.
- Sometimes they’re flirty; sometimes they’re standoffish.
This person is contradictory in how they’re showing up for you
You can&#;t. But you CAN reveal if she&#;s interested in you.
I get asked this question all the time and before I give the person an respond, I always ask an additional question: Do you want the truth, or do you long me to lie to you :)?
The truth: You can’t.
There&#;s nothing about her appearance that will most definitely tell you she&#;s into girls &#; Not hair, nails, dress, or association. Women who identify as “Femme,” often contain long hair and long fingernails and they are super lesbian. A woman dressing in androgynous clothing, may/may not have a thing for girls. She might just really like clothing that actually fits her broad shoulders, or pants with pockets and shoes without heels.
It also doesn’t matter if you go to specifically gay/lesbian clubs. There&#;s no guarantee that if you go to place full of homosexual women, that they will be any more receptive to you flirting with them or trying to pick them up than anywhere else &#; women are all too different! You’ll probably dash into a few more than you normally would on the street at a specifically queer woman club, but y
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Figuring out if someone you're chatting to (maybe flirting with, who the fuck even knows?) is also queer can be a goddam minefield. Sure, some people may have the guts to just tell it, but not everyone does OK?!
Here, 10 lesbian, bisexual and pansexual women explain how they know if someone's potentially into them
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"I'm bisexual. I find that I can tell when women are into me through things like body language, like how block they'll sit next to me, or how much they might touch my arm. By flirtatious conversation, and hints/references to previous girlfriends, or female dates. I have no plan how scientific something love 'gaydar' is, but I found that I would often have this intuitive feeling that another gal was gay/bisexual just through my opening conversations with them (and picking up subconscious cues in their body language).
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