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Here are some fast tips and tricks from ACON’s Peer Education team that will get you topping those bottoms fond a pro in no time.
1. Foreplay before play
When topping for the first time it can be intimidating so we counsel building a lot of trust with your companion by exploring each other’s bodies through foreplay before starting insertive sex.
2. Converse the talk
Communication is incredibly important when you are topping, particularly if it&#;s for the first second. Get comfortable checking in with your partner and asking them how they liked to be fucked. (do they need foreplay? Do they need to be fingered?) Equally, if you know there is something that your significant other does that makes you rock hard then inquire for it!
While you are talking about what gets you and your partner’s engines going, why don’t you include what sort of HIV prevention methods you want to be using? Slip in that you are using PrEP or an undetectab
Advice for Your First Gay Date
Taking a right on Fletcher Travel on the eastside of Los Angeles, there’s a billboard with two male figures under a caption that reads, “Sorry, This Is My First Period Being Gay.” To this day, I have no clue what the billboard is advertising, but my friends and I quote it reflexively whenever we take Fletcher to the I There is something both deeply relatable and incredibly nonsensical about that phrase. The anxiety and insecurity that comes with your first sexual queer encounter is universal in the queer community, and yet the idea that “being gay” is something that can be activated in a single moment is absurd.
Your first queer date, whether that be in high academy or your late thirties, can feel daunting. At the time I started questioning my sexuality, I was working in the college library shelving books during the evening alter. As a hapless dork with anxiety, every period I was in the “queer theory section” (which was expansive in my liberal arts school), I would sit on the floor and read through book after book in the hopes that some gay savv
Tips for cis men who want to try sex with other cis men – in a safe and respectful way
To begin, I&#;d love to clarify that this article is not necessarily about questioning your sexuality. Everyone should be able to travel their curiosities in a pleasurable and positive way, and it&#;s important to understand that you can try fresh things without subscribing to any fixed labels. These tips are for cis men who wish to try sex with other cis men, in a safe and respectful manner.
Note: ‘cisgender men’ or ‘cis men’ refers to men who were assigned male at birth, based on having a penis and other biological characteristics, and identify as men too.Cis is the opposite of trans. We argue trans men morehere, andhere’s some help and advice about navigating sex and relationshipsfor trans men and trans masculine people.
1. Be straightforward from the get-go that you&#;re curious
Whether you want to hook up with someone you&#;re already acquainted with (usually a gym bro, according to most porn), or you&#;ve been involved in a charged emoji swap on Grindr,&n
"I went on a trip to a tropical country. I create a small, secluded, resort-type place with a bar while exploring the area. I spent the entire day there while the male, early 20s bartender served me. He had a blinding smile. At one point, he told me that no one else was around and that I could swim in the pool, naked, if I wanted. I said 'screw it' and did. He kept serving me drinks and talking, and I later said I was gonna get out and go scan by the beach. He told me since no one else was there he was gonna close the area for an hour and that I didn't have to put my clothes back on. He walked me over to the hammock and kept complimenting my body. I was into it, so I didn't stop him. He sort of felt me up as I got into the hammock (I let him), and he eventually made his way down on me"
"This was my first (and only) time a guy had gone down on me. He got naked and offered to go further. I told him I could try but only with protection. He came back with condoms, and I tried but couldn't stay up. He asked if he could try, and at this signal I just felt I was all in anyway, so I was do